Letter to my unborn children/future children

When I die burn my body and scatter my ashes into the ocean. I want you to know that my soul is like an ocean and its passion will never run dry. All your life wherever you be know that l am with you because on the land you walk on underneath that soil , water that has small particles of my ashes will be running. My most fulfilled dream for you will be for you to travel the world because l want you to see with your own eyes what God can do, how he created his master pieces every corner of the universe. Have a heart as adventurous as l do and know that the universe is for you to explore and live happily in. Live every moment to its fullest.

The first rule above them all that you must believe beyond doubt is that there is nothing impossible under the universe. If you can think it, it exist. Don't listen to anyone tell you otherwise. The reason why l tell you this is because your childhood innocence will one day be washed away and it will disappear with your flawless faith in your ability to be anything you dream to be, you will find excuses to why you can't be what you dream to be and your dreams will just remain dreams and nothing more. I don't want that for you. I want you to know that you are capable of anything, even things you haven't thought of yet. Be unapologetic about how people react to the person that you are because honey you have no control over the behavior of other people, do not worry yourself about that. As you grow up you will learn that what other people say about you behind your back is none of your business.

Don't ever for one second in your life be oblivious to the one single truth that life is unfair. So do not expect it to be fair , in fact when it is too soft on you begin to be worried because it means you are on a level below the average of what life is. Fight for many things,  not physically of cause. Which is one of the things you will learn in this life time that the greatest fight is not physical yet mental and spiritual. Hence, l boldly say remain real to who you are, what you are and who you believe you will be. Focus on yourself and take yourself serious because you teach people how to treat you by how you treat yourself. My parents taught me that charity begins at home, so does respect, love and honour starts from right in you.

Education is crucial like the clothes you wear to cover your nakedness, you will realize that on this earth being educated provides you with the leverage  of accessing certain places not accessible to others , sadly that's how the world works, people get to be put in categories and that's where they are expected to remain, do not categories yourself but make sure you are educated. The one gift l will give you in your life is an opportunity to go to school but what you do at school and what you do with that education is your decision to make. As much as l would want a sparkling future for you as my child, l cannot make and give it to you, l can only walk with you half way. Some journeys are traveled alone.

Time will pass, love will remain. You will fall in love countless time and when the heart breaks it will be unbearable but time will come around once more and heal the parts most broken and you will feel hope to love another besides yourself and that my child is how love will remain. So many things will happen in life that will leave you feeling like your heart has been ripped off but don't you ever even for a second let your heart turn bitter. You are in control, they can try push you to lose your cool but be clever. When they push you to the cliff, stand tall at the edge , observe nature from above and understand there is a reason there is you at the edge. You are being pushed to realize yet a new strength you were not aware of. You at the edge are set to value life when you have almost lost a grip over it.

So learn, because it takes discipline to smile at the one that oppresses you, learn to smile when expected to cry. It kills them inside.

We are all meant to die at one point, yes you will die but how it will yet be revealed as death develops face before you. Do not be afraid of death. It is part of life, every journey has stages so is this one. Live life fearless because if it's your day to die you will die but if not you will live. Almost does not exist neither does maybe. You will find that there are many words that exist in the world but they don't necessarily have to apply for you. Discipline yourself, many advices can be given to you but weather you take them and use them it's up to you but have discipline in your life. Challenge your fears , overcome them and life will be very rewarding to you. The best teacher is life itself, the experience.

This letter is the first of many letters l will write to you. I talk a lot but all for your advantage so bear with me. There will come a time l will say no more and that is then, only then that you will desire more than anything in your entire life to hear me say something.

Unconditional love
The bearer of the umbilical cord.