Be careful what you brag about

l am just a girl standing on the sidewalks,
waiting for my car to arrive.
I am found in a sound of a V8 engine,
minding my own double exhaust roar.
Moving on the gear of one to five.
l am really the centre of attention, 
l spin the world around.
My feet a magnet to the ground.
Cars pass by,
women picking up unnecessary battle
with where the eyes of their men leads to.
But l am just a girl, standing on the sidewalks waiting for my car to arrive and when l say my car l mean none than
that got my name to it.

Girlfriends got a tendency of acting up as If they own their boyfriends , especially his car. Sometimes us ladies don't realize how pathetic being obsessive, nagging and possessive is. Just because a guy claims you are now his lady it does not mean now you own him, he looks where you lets him, do what you want him to and hook up with who you wish him to hook up with. Nonetheless all that insecurity is what will exactly drive him straight into another woman's open arms, best believe someone out there is stretching their arms wide open for your man waiting for a time you mess up so she could be there for him acting all better than you. It is true what they say "no matter how beautiful a girl is someone out there is just tired of her crap ", don't be that girl driving a man away then want to bitch-slap another girl on the street claiming she stole your man. Quiet frankly,  men can't be stolen, something between you two left an open vacancy that let another girl place herself in to fill it up. People fail to own up to their mistakes instant they constantly blame other people.

Girls be out here pulling each other down for a guy that don't even notice the incredible girl he's dating. Stop posing in his car, work hard and get your own. There is something powerful about a lady that wants a man but does not need him yet she still respect the fact that she must let him be a man. Some ladies will ridicule a woman like me who prefer getting her own and handling her bills by saying we can't keep a man while infact it's some men who can't handle a woman that knows what she wants and how.  If you honestly want something in life never take shortcuts.

So girl look at me once,  twice and thrice on the rear mirror while you all pass me by in your boyfriend's car. The pearls of wisdom teaches that whatever comes easy goes easy. In all due respect l am not saying don’t brag being in your man’s car but respect yourself enough to brag about things that are credible and don’t be nasty to johnny walkers, after all these two feet that got blood flowing through them are a definite blessing of mobility from above.

Girlfriends , any man that walks into your life can just as much walk out. Sometimes the sexy bunch, cute face , hot abs , got no brain can't make your happy,  leave that man and be with a baboon, presentable, nerdy geek who can keep up a conversation and make you happy, any gorgeous lady can compliments and polish any sort of a  man. okay okay, am not up here trying to place myself a perfect girl but am saying l know my mistakes, weaknesses and am not hiding behind a flower hoping l won't need to face up to them all, some things such as this just need to be said. There was some smoke in the air and l was just clearing it out, after all l am just a girl standing on the sidewalks.