The little things women need from a man

We are not entirely saying drop the playstation and throw the remote control  away so we look into each other’s eyes and be all romantic but we are saying include us.

One of the greatest challenge in love is wanting to be part of someone’s life, especially the person you love and have him shut you out. We barely ask for much but the little things that men miss. I am not saying tell me you love me all the time,  but that one time you do , make it count. Let everything you do tell me you care. Infact if you said “l love you” all the time it will eventually lose its value.  Don’t say something to me because you figure it is something l would love to hear but tell me something because it Is real for you too.

You don’t have to call me the whole day but communicate with me once a day, let me know that l pass through your mind at least once and that’s enough to tell me l am part of your present and future. I understand that you are not like us women, you can’t focus on two things at once.  We know how crucial it is spending time with your boys and we are not saying don’t,  but we can’t compete with your boys for your attention, it is you who want me in your life, if you want me to play a certain role then give me what is due to me, give me my time in your time. If you can’t let your boys know that l am your girl then you have no right to make me believe l am.

If you do not treat her right, another man is willing to take your part but she’s sticking with you cause you make her heart beat in a way no other man does but that don’t mean she won’t leave if she feels unloved.

Not all women rock up into your life to spend your money, most women just want to spend your time, she wants you to have time to listen when she wants to talk even if she could be repeating herself thousand times, make time to play with her not just be intimate but take her for a walk, throw her the joystick and let you two have a turn with the playstation, let her know what’s happening in your life and not make her feel she needs to question you all time for you to talk to her. Basically be the Man.

If you not ready to show her off, take her off the pedestal. Lastly, any woman needs a man that will accept her as she is and not try to understand her, if you are on that course as a man then unfortunately you will never get your master certificate. Someone once said  a woman is like a car, take care of her, be gentle and rough but never exceed the limit and when with her be focused otherwise your life would be a nightmare. 

The list continues of the little things women needs…I just touched base.